In life, many of the challenges we face are simply distractions from the enemy to keep us from pursuing our destiny. Maybe someone in the office isnt as friendly to you as youd like. Maybe you have a neighbor who always parks in front of your house and blocks your mailbox. Those things may be frustrating, but they have little significance when you look at the big picture of eternity. You cant allow the little things to cause strife in your life.

In scripture, just before David fought the giant Goliath, his brother Iliab tried to confront him. But David knew that arguing with Iliab wasnt even worth his time and strength. He knew his real battle was with Goliath, and he didnt want to be distracted. He simply turned away from Iliab and kept his focus on what he was called to do.

Lets follow the example of David and keep our eyes on whats most important in life. Instead of being led away by frustrations, lets focus on the big picture. Know when to turn away from strife and receive the mark of honor He has for you!

“Connect by Using Constructive Words” by Rick Warren.

Did you know that the words that come out of our mouths are like a tool? Sometimes they’re like a sledgehammer. We swing away without thinking and end up with a pile of relational rubble. Sometimes they’re like a saw, cutting people down. If we keep using these tools, inevitably our relationships are going to suffer.

One reason we aren’t constructive with our words is we don’t realize how powerful they are; yet, I bet you can still remember things people said to you in a thoughtless way as far back as grade school or college. That’s how powerful words are. They leave a lasting impact. So when it comes to your mouth, think of it as a power tool and be very careful with it.

Here’s how to build instead of destroying with your words —

Stop excusing — Stop saying, “I didn’t really mean to say that.” Realize that what you say impacts everyone around you.

Talk less — If it’s a power tool, you don’t have to use it as much. One of the reasons we get in trouble is we just talk too much sometimes.

Listen more — If I listen more, I can understand people’s needs.

Start building — Think first of all, “What do they need?” How can I use a word of encouragement to build them up? How can I use a word of challenge to make a difference in someone’s life? How can I use my words to build up the people I love the most?